Monday, November 28, 2011

Mystical Magical Creatures

The other day this was my facebook status

why do men (and women) create these mystical & magical creatures in their mind that they believe they will find as a mate?

People blamed on Disney and other things, but it made me think....why do we do this??? I mean we have these preconceived notions of what we want in the person we want to spend the rest of our lives with.  Below I will list some of the things I have heard.....

Women should be:
  1. Beautiful
  2. Skinny
  3. Independent
  4. Porn Stars
  5. Making 6 figures
  6. Make me look good
  7. Take care of kids
  8. Keep the house clean
  9. No kids
Men should be:
  1. Fine
  2. Rich
  3. Working
  4. Big Feet (you know what I am saying)
  5. The perfect gentleman at all times
  6. Allways attentive
  7. Making at least 6 figures (not the same as rich)
  8. No kids
  9. College Educated
What is on your list for the perfect mate? Are your expectations realistic or have you created the same magical creature I lot of people have?

Just some thoughts.....

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Why Can't it Just Be Simple!!!!

A recent series of events makes me wonder why things are so complicated? I mean why do people make things so hard. If you like someone or want to be with someone tell them! Why do you have to play games, why do you have to flirt. Just say it I LIKE YOU!!!

People always say that life is complicated, why does it have to be? Can't we just be unfiltered and say what is on our minds, do what we want to do, and just be free? No, because that would be too much like right. I am not saying get rid of rules and structure, but I think too many people hide behind them.

This all I can say for right now......We shall see where this goes. Good Morning :-)