Friday, December 12, 2008

The Approach

A little while ago I wrote a blog about we have to be able to have a conservation which I still see as a problem. My question now is why when you are interested in someone you don't know how to approach? I mean "hey shawty" is not cute or the other random lines that people come up with. Why is it so hard to approach a person that you are interested in. I recently had someone who I am pretty sure is interested come by my office and comes up with random questions and I am like what the hell? I mean if you want to talk to me ask me for my number come at me with a question that will help you and me to get to know each other. Don't ask about random things such as do you have the last CD from Soul for Real (love the group, but a random request). I do believe first impressions are long lasting and you only get one chance.


Jervis said...

yeh this is so tru, some people just dont have that common sense on what to do

Anonymous said...

Right On! Write On!

Brothers Blog said...

soul 4 real? was he 4 real? lol.

But you're right I think people generally can't handle potential rejection and therefore try to come up with other ways of getting there but don't realize how they may be playing them selves by doing that.

Humbly Beautiful said...

I feel you on the rejection aspect, but if you feeling someone that should not stop you. I know it is easier said than done, but I think if more people did it people would be more honest with themselves.

He did not ask for Soul 4 Real...for someone that group popped in my head, think I saw them on VH1 soul recently.